RAKSHA
Bandhan is an unspoken pledge exchanged between a brother
and sister cementing their fraternal relationship. This
also reinforces their protective bond against all ills and
odds. Raksha Bandhan is celebrated on the day of Shravan
Poornima that falls in the month of August every year. On
this very day, the sisters tie a delicate, sometimes decorated,
thread on the wrist of their brothers as a symbol of love
and affection. This makes the brothers bound to protect
their sisters from any trouble or wound. The chanting of
a holy mantra by the sisters while tying the thread says,
Yena baddho Balee raajaa daanavendro
mahaabalah
Tena twaam anubadhnaami rakshe
maa chala maa chala
It means, "I am tying a raksha to
you, similar to the one tied to Bali, the powerful king
of the demons. Oh raksha, be firm, do not waver." The
mantra recalls how the Demon King Bali had become powerful
with the rakhi he wore. The power of the mantra is supposed
to protect the wearer from evil influences. This shows how
dependent and secure a sister feels when she has a brother.
Tying this rakhi or raksha signifies the re-strengthening
of the bond between the siblings of opposite sexes.
How this simple, annually recurring act
of tying the rakhi on one’s wrist can evoke such strong
and intense emotions in a person is indeed surprising. It
seems almost like an unspoken pledge, exchanged between
a brother and a sister cementing their fraternal relationship
and reinforcing their protective bond against all ills and
odds.
Raksha Bandhan day starts with a festive
mood in every Indian home. Rakhis are made or bought before
the festival. Traditional goodies and dishes are prepared
early in the morning. After an early bath, the offering
puja takes place. The sister then offers aarti (a traditional
way of worshipping) to her brother and ties the thread on
his right wrist. Traditional tilak or vermilion powder on
the forehead of the brother is put and the brother blesses
the sister. The tradition of giving gifts and presents is
also an important part of this festival. The brother gifts
his sister a gift after she ties the rakhi on his wrist.
This gift acts as a token of love and affection of the brother
towards the sister. Sometimes sisters also demand for a
gift of their own choice to keep it as a loving memory of
that very day. However, the blessing bestowed by the brother
itself is regarded as the biggest gift for the sister. Treating
her brother along with her entire family, the goodies and
eatables that have been prepared follows next. The normal
rituals are followed with great devotion and dedication.
India shows its unity among diversity in
its various ways of celebrating Raksha Bandhan too. Rakhi
is mostly celebrated in the northern part of India. The
celebration of Raksha Bandhan is more or less the same in
this region. But the other parts of India celebrate this
festival in various other ways. The rituals and customs
followed differ with region to region.
The festival of Raksha Bandhan is also
known as Narial Poornima or Coconut Full Moon in Mumbai’s
famous beaches. Coconuts are thrown into the sea to propitiate
the Sea God, Varuna, who is the chief object of worship
on this occasion. The ‘three eyes’ of the coconut are believed
to represent the three-eyed Shiva and hence the religious
significance. In fact, Hindus consider it auspicious to
break a coconut in front of a deity before embarking upon
any important venture.
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