TV And Your Kids

Contributed by: Mr. Manuhira

It’s Summer: How Many Hours of TV Will Your Kids Watch Today?

As a child, I watched hours of mindless TV shows with my brother and sisters. I also argued, whined, moaned, pouted, sulked, and complained bitterly when our mom finally made us turn it off after nearly a half-dozen hours of nonstop viewing. And still, I like to think I turned out OK. After all, I rarely watch TV now–maybe only a couple of hours a month.

If I wanted to play devil’s advocate, I’d say we parents just worry too much about our kids. The kids are home from school for the summer, they’re tired from a busy year–what’s wrong with a few hours a day of downtime in front of the tube?

“A few hours a day is too much TV,” say psychologists. Children should to read, play outdoors, hike, catch up on hobbies, do crafts, visit interesting places, and just spend some time daydreaming.

What the research shows

Unless you’ve been raising your kids in a cabin without electricity at the back of beyond, you know about the research on children, violence, and TV. It’s hard to ignore. It’s also hard to ignore the statistics on the number of hours most children spend in front of a television set.

A quick summary :

  • The average household has at least one TV set turned on for about seven hours a day.
  • The average school-aged child spends 27 hours per week watching TV (some preschoolers watch much more).
  • Over the course of a year, children spend more time watching TV than they spend in school or participating in any other activity except sleep. Children’s TV shows contain about 20 violent acts per hour.
  • A high percentage of a child’s viewing time is spent watching shows intended for adults: 40 percent of a 6-year-old’s viewing time, and about 80 percent of a 12-year-old’s viewing time.
  • The average child will have watched 100,000 acts of televised violence, including 8,000 murders, by the time he or she finishes the sixth grade.

Contrast these numbers with the recommendation that a child watch no more than one to two supervised hours of TV a day.

The result? It is generally accepted that all this TV watching has three main effects on children :

1.They become less sensitive to the pain and suffering of others,

2.They become more fearful of the world around them,

3.and they are more likely to behave toward others in aggressive or harmful ways.

In addition, all that sitting around makes them fat. Kids are in worse physical shape than they’ve ever been.

Getting control of the remote

Here are three good strategies for reducing the amount of time your children spend watching TV this summer.

1.Don’t have a TV in the house

I’ve always admired those parents who solved the TV problem by simply not having a TV. You can’t watch what you don’t have. If that seems too extreme, consider getting rid of the box for the summer. Or for a week. “We weren’t exposed to violence on TV,” says Jim, a 30-year-old man who grew up without TV, “and we know that if you hit someone, it hurts!” “We were also very well-read kids, and I learned to play games, work quietly alone, and I developed a vivid imagination. Today, I am not a TV addict. I’m fine without a television–although I’d miss ‘Star Trek’!”

2.Limit the number of viewing hours

I’ve used this strategy with my two sons for years. Their limit is one hour a day. If one child chooses to watch a different program than the one his brother wants to watch, he has to leave the room during his brother’s TV time. Many days, my children watch no TV at all. I don’t allow them to carry these hours over to the next day, but I will bend the rules to allow them to watch a two-hour movie on the weekend.

3.Limit the programs your kids watch

Decide with your children what programs they can watch during the week. You can allow children to watch Discovery, Science, National Geographic channels during holidays.

More ideas

Whatever strategy you choose, here are some other ways to reduce TV’s influence in your home:

1.Move the box

Get the TV out of the living room or family room. Don’t allow TV watching during dinner.

2.Post a warning label

Tape a sign on the TV: “Caution! Too much TV leads to violent behavior and obesity.” It’s a daily reminder of TV’s dangers.

3.Be a good role model

Don’t watch TV yourself just because you don’t feel like doing anything else. Don’t leave the TV on for hours. Kids do what you do, not what you say.

4.Make viewing special

Make watching TV a special event, not a daily habit. One year, my sons and I set aside Friday nights to watch old black-and-white horror movies on video, complete with pizza. Over a couple of months, we watched The Mummy, The Invisible Man, Frankenstein, Dracula, and other classics. Set aside every Saturday night where the remote rotates through the family and the person whose turn it is gets to choose the movie, or choose a family game to play.

5.Watch with your kids

Consider a “no TV unless a parent is watching” rule–not forever, but maybe for a week during the summer. See what happens.

6.TV-free Fridays

Consider making TV off-limits on certain days of the week. Be sure to warn your kids in advance.

7.Read to them instead

Be willing to read to your kids if you’re trying to reduce their TV time. Or play Scrabble or another favorite game.

8.Offer alternatives to TV

Keep a drawer supplied with inexpensive, fun things to occupy your kids. Think water balloons, balsam airplanes, origami paper, colored pipe cleaners, and so on. Inexpensive activity books, including stickers, paper dolls, mazes, and crossword puzzles. If you have a well-stocked drawer like this, you’ll always have a reply to the age-old summer complaint, “But there’s nothing to do!”

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